From a Distance:

Being a Long-Distance Caregiver

It is definitely a challenge to be a long-distance caregiver but now more resources and assistance are available than ever before. Some suggestions for being a long-distance caregiver to a Minnesota resident are:

Identify needs

Don't assume a loved one needs services. Start an open discussion about what he or she needs, wants and will accept. Get input from friends, neighbors and a physician. Consider the assistance of a Geriatric Care Manager who can help assess the individual's needs, identify local services and work with others to oversee and coordinate the care of the aging loved one.

Get access to documents

Locate your aging loved one's insurance policies, will, burial plans, health care declarations, Social Security number, bank account numbers and investments. Be sure to take care of legal matters, such as assigning durable power of attorney. Make appointments with his or her physician, lawyer and financial advisor so you can be prepared to help make important decisions.

Establish a support network

Enlist the help of friends, relatives, neighbors, and clergy in checking on your loved oneÕs condition so they can share their observations with you about how the person is doing. Be sure to keep emergency numbers with you.

Seek personal support

Share your feelings with other family members and consider joining a support group for caregivers.

Gather available resources

The following pages provide lists of Caregiver options and resources in Minnesota. The Senior LinkAge Line at (800) 333-2433 or First Call For Help number: 2-1-1, are also great resources in Minnesota. Children of Aging Parents (CAPS) has a booklet Aging Parents and Common Sense available by calling (800) 227-7294.